Be yourself...

We start feeling numb when we shout but no one listens we explain ourselves but no one understands, everything in life starts turning into problem with no solutions. Everyone has different personalities with different mindsets and each one of us should respect each other's lifestyle which we pretend to do at first but then after sometime we start blaming others for what they actually are instead of understanding and accepting them. This society in which we live is nothing but a bunch of people with smiling faces and crying hearts, each heart loaded with bunch of their own problems and struggles faced while achieving their goals. 

During this whole journey we see lots of ups and down. Different kind of people comes with different mindsets with different intentions, some genuinely want to be a part of your life and want you to grow whereas there are some who come with an intention in your life to extract what they want from you or there may be group of people who were at some point very important to you but now doesn't hold that place but still stays there so as to bring some toxicity into your life and no matter what you do they will always criticize. If you can not appreciate someone for what they are doing or are trying to do then you are no one to criticize them. If you can not spread some positive impact in anyone's life then there is no need for you to be a toxic one because you never know how much impact does your words cause in anyone's life. 

And due to such people what we do is let them restrict us as whatever they say or think effects us because of which we start doing things according to them in a hope that one day they will accept us, praise us or treat us well.

People often say each other to ignore things or to not think about them but it's life and things do matter yes it hurts when people only criticize you but what you can do is stop and for once do what you feel is correct, what makes you happy people will never accept you they will always complain just listen to what your heart want and one day when you will look back, you will see how far you have come and yes that will be difficult very difficult but by the time it won't even matter and then you will grow and you will become a better version of what you were there but all of this will only happen if you will stop thinking about others because " zindagi ek safar hai suhana yaha kal kya ho kisne jana" so stop thinking and start living and just let them talk, you focus on yourself it's your life because Some people won't accept you the way you are they will keep on looking for loopholes and it's you who cares about opinions of those who is enjoying their lives at fullest by judging you or restricting you. No one except you has the power to judge what you are or your actions so unless you feel that what you are doing isn't good, it should not matter so let go of all the toxicity that everyone has filled you with and just be YOU.