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We start feeling numb when we shout but no one listens we explain ourselves but no one understands, everything in life starts turning into problem with no solutions. Everyone has different personalities with different mindsets and each one of us should respect each other's lifestyle which we pretend to do at first but then after sometime we start blaming others for what they actually are instead of understanding and accepting them. This society in which we live is nothing but a bunch of people with smiling faces and crying hearts, each heart loaded with bunch of their own problems and struggles faced while achieving their goals.  During this whole journey we see lots of ups and down. Different kind of people comes with different mindsets with different intentions, some genuinely want to be a part of your life and want you to grow whereas there are some who come with an intention in your life to extract what they want from you or there may be group of people who were at some point v...
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Be your own happy place !!

Ever yone deserves a place where they could burst out what they are going through, a place where they could share everything without getting judged, a place where they find peace and reason to smile amongst all the trouble that they go through, a place from where they would get all that care, love, value or understanding which they never got from anyone but what if you actually have no one no place or what if that place too with time will start getting at the urge of extinction and by the time will eventually vanish like every other did. These questions and the desperation to make that place permanent or to never lose someone how long will we cling on things that are gone. how long will it take for us to accept the fact that they along with that place doesn't exist anymore or may be they are there but things have changed and it is us who are standing there hoping for different endings.  To avoid thinking about these things or to answer these question to ourselves what we all do is ...
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choose yourself !!

 Taking decisions in life is never easy especially when you are someone who always keep others feelings before yours. When you decide that you do not want to be with someone or you want to leave from a place which was never yours, lots of things come in our minds but since  you are an altruist so you go running back to them so that you never hurt them or leave them and also all those memories it does not let you go.  But everything has its own limits whether it is love or friendship or any relationship all of them requires efforts from both the sides, support from both sides, desire to be together from both the sides but when it is not from both the sides its as if you are watering a dead plant. The main problem here is that you know everything but you still do that because you do not want to give up and then there comes a time when you realize that its not happening. You realize that it was you who were literally begging them just to be together and being at a place whic...
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changing self to change the world....

I know life is not easy but why do people come and go according to their wish in your life, at some point they make you feel that they cant live without you whereas on the other they will forget that you even exist.  The main problem with people like us is that we trust people easily, we look only to the bright and good side of the person and then this is accompanied by us living in the lie which that person once said to us which made us feel that we are important to them. we start giving our best to make them happy, to build a bond which will be completely based on the trust, support and love which we craved in our entire lives. The only mistake which we make is that we start thinking that this is the one with whom the empty whole which we have carried throughout our lives will be replaced , we feel that our life is complete with them, each moment spent with them makes us feel that there is so much about life and believing on all of this we start living our lives hoping that the p...
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