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choose yourself !!

 Taking decisions in life is never easy especially when you are someone who always keep others feelings before yours. When you decide that you do not want to be with someone or you want to leave from a place which was never yours, lots of things come in our minds but since  you are an altruist so you go running back to them so that you never hurt them or leave them and also all those memories it does not let you go.  But everything has its own limits whether it is love or friendship or any relationship all of them requires efforts from both the sides, support from both sides, desire to be together from both the sides but when it is not from both the sides its as if you are watering a dead plant. The main problem here is that you know everything but you still do that because you do not want to give up and then there comes a time when you realize that its not happening. You realize that it was you who were literally begging them just to be together and being at a place whic...

changing self to change the world....

I know life is not easy but why do people come and go according to their wish in your life, at some point they make you feel that they cant live without you whereas on the other they will forget that you even exist.  The main problem with people like us is that we trust people easily, we look only to the bright and good side of the person and then this is accompanied by us living in the lie which that person once said to us which made us feel that we are important to them. we start giving our best to make them happy, to build a bond which will be completely based on the trust, support and love which we craved in our entire lives. The only mistake which we make is that we start thinking that this is the one with whom the empty whole which we have carried throughout our lives will be replaced , we feel that our life is complete with them, each moment spent with them makes us feel that there is so much about life and believing on all of this we start living our lives hoping that the p...